Writing this on a throwaway so nobody I know sees this,
Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year in a same sex relationship. Earlier this year we just started “having sex” if that’s what you call just the basics that’s not intercourse.
Although she says I do good there’s a part of me that thinks I’m barely doing it good. I don’t really make her finish but she blames the time and the fact that sometimes she’s nervous about getting caught. I’ve made her cum ( spray and cream) but not finish if you get what I’m saying.
When I do give her brain I’ll have a rhythm then lose it and I don’t know why, or my jaw will get fatigued to the point it’s slow and barely feels like I can move it.
I don’t want to say she’s lying because I truly believe her but idk if she’s not saying anything because she doesn’t want to embarrass me or anything.
She’s the first person I’ve done this with so any advice would be appreciated