While I was on my way to do grocery shopping, a guy came over and asked me where the supermarket was. I told him which way to go but then he was like “I have to be honest, I have my office here, I just saw you and wanted to talk to you, I wanted to invite you to coffee”, and he asked me, if I have a boyfriend and I asked him then if he has a girlfriend and he said “no I don’t have a girlfriend” and then I agreed to a cup of coffee (I mean why not). Then we went to his office and we talked a bit, and he was constantly saying how beautiful I am and stuff like that and wanted to hold my hand, kiss my cheek etc, and it felt a bit too much for me, I just met the guy.
Anyways after like ten to fifteen minutes I said that I had to go and he walked me to the door and I gave him my number, but I wrote it on a piece of paper. After I handed him he wanted to hug and kiss me again and I immediately said no that’s this is too fast and I don’t kiss someone I know for a second! I was just out of the door when he was like “I have to be honest with you, I have girlfriend”. I was shocked! I took the piece of paper with my number on it and left! I am so glad that I didn’t write it on his phone!! I am not mad, I am just confused as to why he is asking me for coffee and lying within the first seconds of meeting someone new!!
I am just so sorry for his girlfriend, because I felt so uncomfortable afterwards.
How do you deal with dating fails like this?
I’m sorry that this I a bit long, it’s also my first Reddit post.