My boyfriends and I have been together for a little over a month now. I’m 17 and he’s 18. I really love him and he’s really sweet, he’s got such a kind heart to him. But sometimes there seems to be an oddly aggressive side as well.
The other day we had been cuddling and he pulled down his shorts and said “you can say no” in the most caring voice. I whispered that I could but I just didn’t know how to and he pulled my hair back and then held his dick with his other hand. He used extreme force while pushing my head down (not like a hurting force but it was pretty aggressive for the first time). He’s also done other things like squeeze my wrists while cuddling or pushing on my ribs while making out. I guess I’m just curious if this is normal?