My girlfriend is afraid of reaching the orgasm. Whenever she's about to reach, she just stops. According to her she feels somekind of spasms or something in her legs and the body. Which makes her feel like she might die.
I want to feel that sensation. We used vibrator also. But she just stops upon reaching that particular stage and just won't go forward.
How can I help her understand. Or maybe I am wrong, and she might really get hurt if we don't stop.
I have only read how women feels, and it should be out of this world. I really want my girlfriend to feel those sensations. I love her and so I don't want her to live her life without feeling the orgasm.
Also please forgive me if my wording is wrong or not respectful as English is not my first language.
Edit: It's not like she doesn't want to. It's just that she feels kind of overwhelmed when those sensations start to build. And when she is like a few "steps" away from the peek, she kinda feels afraid. That's why she stops. She has tried from her side also. Like she would try to achieve the orgasm but after one point she is not able to handle those feelings/sensations.
It would also be helpful to get woman's perspective, basically if it really feels like the soul is leaving your body, or a lot of sensations in the body and majorly in legs. If someone used to feel like this, how did they overcome that.