27M
For context I recently talked with EX after not talking to her for 2 months & I let slip that I had feelings for & asked her on a date then she said name a date & time.
This has already came after I had gotten 2 different matches on hinge one of then I dodged bullet.
I found out she was married before I even had a first date with her so naturally I unmatched with her & told the husband he was appreciative for me telling him, plus I hate being used like that.
The other we hit it off that we move discord & she was so sweet, but on Saturday I talked with my EX & we talked for bit since the day I before got my learner's permit which took me 15 tries but I finally got it done & was euphoric for first time I'n a long time. I felt guilty for leading the woman from discord but I told her everything about the situation from ex & she was ok with it but I still felt like shit because I should have resolved this a while before getting into a new relationship but at least I did before I even went on a date with her but it was problematic on my part.
So what's your experience getting with your EX did it end badly or end up great for both of you?
Also the reason for initial breakup was my mental state at the time I didn't want to be a burden to her emotionally so I didn't want to drag her down with me & I felt we were better off as friend's & she agreed so it ended amicably.