I'm a 21F in a relationship with my 32M boyfriend for a year now. We have a good relationship though he can be a bit immature sometimes.
We don't live together and have not been able to meet as often for the past 2 months because he's been traveling for work. For the past week I've been staying at his place and unfortunately got my period 5 days ago. It normally ends in 4 days but has been
Longer this month 🤷♀️
I'm not comfortable with intercourse on my period though I'm okay fooling around in other ways. He has been pretty down that we haven't been able to have intercourse and tried to initiate it last night. I said no I'm on my period and he didn't believe me since it had been so many days. He got a bit aggressive and said I was lying. I'm already feeling like crap and this made me snap so I lowered my pants and showed him my bloody pad and asked if he believes me now.
He freaked the fuck out and said I was fucking disgusting for showing him that. I said I had no choice because he kept saying I was lying. He said I needed to be more mature about this and then also yelled at me for not going to the doc for having "such a long period". I had enough and walked out and have ignored him since then.
Maybe I was the asshole but I really wanted to make a point and didn't appreciate being pushed. This behavior is making me reconsider the relationship.
TL;DR: Boyfriend is immature and can't take no for an answer. Thinking of leaving him