For context, |(27F) am new to sex, madly in love with my partner and so is he(30M) with me. He is much more experienced than I am. Our sex is a little dull, things have improved since I just started having sex but we both don't feel that raw energy, spark etc. He isn't sure of what specifics to tell me and also doesn't want to say much since it may ruin the experience later on for him with questions like whether l'm organically doing this or if I'm faking it etc.
Could you guys give me suggestions on what I can do to bring that spark or passion and make sex way more fun for the both of us?
I've worked on becoming more vocal so far and l used to lay dead there initially with being a little shy and what not which I don't do anymore. But in general I feel he wants me to be more active. I'd love any pointers on what exactly to do, where to touch, when to touch etc.
So far our routine is some foreplay(kisses, bj, and then a couple of different positions), but I find myself unsure of when to touch him and how to touch him.
The more specific you can respond in comments/suggeations, the better since l'm unable to get any specifics out of him.
TIA!
TL;DR
I(27F)Need specific suggestions to feel that spark and more passion during sex with bf(30m)