My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. We have discussed getting married, but sometimes I am unsure if that is the right decision for us. We have been arguing a lot and he really thinks is both of us, but I’m being honest and I just think it’s him.
- We argued on Sunday because he decided to drive from the gas station home without his seatbelt. I just experienced a loss last week from someone who lost their life by not wearing a seat belt. Mind you I have never seen him do that before. We argued about it and he swore up and down he forgot that situation happened and didn’t do it to upset me, and said that I’m annoying because I put my personal fears on him?
- Yesterday he got off work and I could tell from the phone call we had that he was not in a good mood and he stated that he was hangry. When he came in the house, I didn’t say anything to him because I wanted to give him his space. he immediately got mad and said I should’ve spoke to him even though he could’ve spoke as well, but I explained to him it was because I was trying to give him space and complete a work call. 30 minutes later he then proceeded to argue with me for hour with the question “who fault do you think it is we argue so much?” I originally responded to the question and said no one’s and he called me a liar. I eventually said him and he said he is tired of me blaming him all the time. Which resulted in us not talking for the rest of the day.
I care about him, but I just feel hopeless. I feel like we just don’t see eye to eye. We have done therapy in the past.
Does any one have any suggestions on how to improve the relationship?