I find it REALLY hard to find guys I like. At this point it is terribly hard because I had one bf from lime October 2023- january 2024 but I didn't really feel a spark between me and him because he kinda just stopped trying but ever since we broke up I haven't had a single crush until like a week ago when I found a guy I really liked but just yesterday I found out he had a girlfriend and he wasn't the same guy he was on his Instagram. On his Instagram he was this hardworking, athletic,single,at home type of guy but when I found his tik tok he was a complete different person. On tik tok he wad a taken, somewhat athletic, going out type of guy and I just honestly broke my heart when I saw that he had a girlfriend even tho we never talked. The reason we never talked was because I wanted to make sure he didn't have a girlfriend so I wouldnt be a home wrecker and whatever. Anyways ever since that day I found he has a girlfriend I feel like I honestly can never find a guys who's actually likeable. By likable I mean alot of guys in my country are eiter rude, fugly, taken, too busy with their sport and overall its really hard to find a guy who doesn't live on the other side of the country and doesn't happen to be one of your cousins. And I can't really use tinder or other dating apps because some specific people might find it and I might get bullied for it and also I'm pretty sure there aren't many guys on there that are my age.
what should I do?