Met this Frenchman on Bumble, went on a date, and really hit it off. Ended up seeing each other the next day and having great sex. (Established that we weren’t seeing other people prior to banging.) Later that night, his family came into town for a few weeks and we kept in touch. He then went back to Europe with them for a few weeks and before he left he offered to swing by my place to say hi, but I got worried he just was just interested in me for sex and I called him out on it. He seemed alarmed/put off and said that wasn’t his intention and he would see me when he got back from his trip.. I apologized for overreacting, but he’s been silent since. I noticed he was back in town this past weekend via Bumble and since he is the only person I’m interested in, I deleted my account. It’s been a week and I have not heard from him. Wondering what a guy’s opinions/thoughts are on this situation.


4 comments

  1. Ahhhh shit you got bumbled

    See here’s my theory:

    Normal dudes would feel insulted using a platform that exists specifically to treat them like predators, so the only dudes that use it are “male feminists”

    “Male feminists” don’t actually hate themselves, they just don’t care about being honest, so they play the game to get what they want

  3. I wouldn’t be interested in someone who calls me out wanting consensual sex. That’s a red flag.

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