I -24 told my bf -28 about his weight and he got upset.
Okay so my bf gets insecure about his weight. I know this bc he’s very hesitant to take his clothes off in front of me and our sex is very poor bc he doesn’t feel comfortable. I ensure him like it’s okay it doesn’t affect my love for him. But I did mention to him about going back to the gym because he would feel upset about his weight so I’m like hey why don’t you actually start and get back your health in order. He started to get really upset not at me but his mood got really bad. I felt guilty bc I didn’t mean to ruin his mood but like I notice for his age his rate of activity isn’t the best. I told him like whilst he’s still young, that he should take care of his health bc it won’t be easier when he ages. How can I proceed to make him stop feeling bad and to actually start losing weight and gain back the type of health he wants? He’s a great guy but this one insecurity does take a toll on our physical intimacy. I just don’t know how to help him. I want him to take action and stop presenting a it is what it is mentality.