Why is Modern dating is so exhausting? Should I rather be alone?

I've been feeling very alone lately, and I've made some attempts to try to get out of this rut. I've asked some people out on tinder, but it seems like they never care about my thoughts, my interests, they just seem to want to sleep with me. This makes me feel even more like no one cares about what I think and it makes me feel even more difficult to date. What's the best way to help me?