It’s not the first time she’s done this. She’s a single mom, has a 1 yr old and has had awful trouble with the baby daddy. I haven’t seen her in 6 months, she lives in a different city but we talk on the phone every single day.
She told me 2 weeks ago she’s coming to my city for two nights because she has a wedding. She was supposed to arrive today, we spoke all day about the plan. I had a very busy week and I have an event tomorrow as well, so I rushed everything and changed my schedule as much as I could so I could clean the house and finish everything before she arrives
She messaged me that she arrived in the city but she’s stopping “somewhere” for a few minutes. It’s been 2 hours, she’s definitely not coming anymore and I know exactly who she’s with. I understand that she has needs but she could’ve let me know?? It’s not the first time she says she’s coming to my place and I stay up till midnight to wait for her and I find out after that she’s at some guy’s place.
I am so annoyed and I don’t know how to tell her what she’s doing is wrong. It was so disrespectful for her to make me wait knowing that I also changed my schedule and had loads to do. Do I even say anything? Since it’s not the first time? Is it worth it confronting her? Or should I just not talk to her and let her figure it out…