I 27f met a guy 37m at a friend group event. I felt very attracted physically yet repelled emotionally. His style of conversation is a bit combative, dodgy, and flirty. He jokingly told everyone i was a liar (for no reason).
He has strong sexual energy. Unbuttons his shirt while parading himseld around, flirts with every girl around, and reclines in a seductive way when sitting. He is pretty irresistible and i felt strong chemistry despite the flirty yet awkward dialog we shared.
He promised me that if i guessed his last name he wouldnt drink for 4 weeks. I got it right because i overheard him say it another time. Yet he continued to drink the rest of the night claiming he didn't say when he would start and it made me irritated.
The next time i saw him was a week later at another group activity. He was drinking alcohol. I called him out and he claimed that he agreed to start his 4 week sobriety once we went out. But i dont remember him adding that condition. I figured i may not have heard him. He claimed i dont listen to him when he talks.
I ended up brushing that issue aside and we ended up talking for hours that night. I felt happy to be alone with him yet nervous. We kissed many times.
Now many days have passed. We have texted occasionally. He has not asked me on a date. This time apart made me rethink his character. He doesnt come across as very trustworthy. A bit of a flirt. Womanizer. Cocky.
Should i cut it off due to his pattern of avoiding his promise? Or give him another chance?