I’ll try to keep this short but here’s a tiny bit of backstory.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. About a year ago I found out that he was still texting with his Ex. I don’t know what they talked about but there were messages that I saw of her texting him that she misses him. He deleted their messages before i could even see his response. I saw that text about three times. I try to keep my head high and believe that he was respectful towards me so I left the past behind me. He decided to block her completely because of how many messages he was receiving and how uncomfortable she made me feel. It got to a point where I even reached out to her and ask her to stop. She told me that if she ever saw me out in public she’d beat the living sh*t out of me (To paint the picture, shes not a very nice person). Now it’s been a year of nothing BUT over the past few months he has completely changed towards me and I haven’t been confident in our relationship. I posted another post on here explaining, and I got a lot of PM’s saying I should go through his phone. I’m weak and i caved (I know, I know). Although i didn’t find anything out of the ordinary I did notice that he has unblocked her. Should i be worried or am i just overthinking??