I used to meal prep my husband breakfast and lunch. I would write him little love notes and go the extra mile. I stopped doing it when he didn’t eat the meal prep, wouldn’t even open the lunch box. I know because I would find old sandwiches and unopened notes in his car.
Fast forward 2 years and a baby later… I explained to my husband why I had stopped.
He promises he will appreciate it more and that when he first started his job, he didn’t have time to eat or do anything else but the job. But I would find donut wrappers… 🙃 there’s other things I’ve stopped doing because of this.
I’m afraid to start again because it would hurt my feelings really bad if it ends up the way it was 2 years ago. I feel like I’ve really slacked but I guess that’s what feeling unappreciated did to me. I want to start doing the things I love to do for him again but hesitant… any advice? ☹️