32M here and I would say for all my dating experience I feel things go quickly. I'm struggling to understand the idea of "taking things slow". I question should I be the one to learn and take things slowly or keep to my own pace?
I matched with someone on a dating app and hit it off instantly through various deep conversations. They mention they want to take things slow. After 4 dates in the past month they still felt like I'm a stranger even though I don't feel that way at all. And I don't know if they're interested in me during this time or just hanging out with me as a friend and trying to see if they're interested in me?
I've had a million questions of everything during this time and feel incredibly unsure of the situation and myself.
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Meaning to say not immediately trying to commit nor have sex. What you need is for them to feel trust through actions although you may feel like trust then enough because physically your are attracted to them they dont feel that safety net yet
She’s right. Women have been raped and murdered by men they went on dates with. It’s important for her to go by the pace she’s comfortable with. If she feels she doesn’t know you yet, then she doesn’t know you yet. She’s interested given that she’s going on dates with you, but just wants to know you more to know you won’t hurt her. You have to be more understanding.