I (28F) have never orgasmed before, not by myself with and without toys, and not for lack of partners or their trying.
I enjoy sex but the days where I have a full bladder it feels 5 times better. I read somewhere that the bladder presses on the g spot, and I'm inclined to believe it. Those days sometimes I feel like wow if this kept on idk maybe it could be the time, but I really don't want to piss on someone accidentally.
I have had moments where I've leaked a little and had to go pee, and then it's dropped back to good but not mind blowing sex.
I thought maybe I should find a man with a piss kink so I could just relax, but I just checked out some golden shower subreddits and the people on those pages are fulllll on. Maybe that's not for me.
Am I alone in this? I've never heard anyone about it.
Ps if a single one of you recommends I take my time and explore myself I will scream <3