My supposed boyfriend M/29 knows of my past relationship and promised me F/29 not to hurt me. But he made behind my back some comments about my weight with his family and friends, like I was someone that he is ashamed of. And sent one of his parents a photo of me and said “that big she is”. He said that it was a mistake what he did but he continued to gaslight me. I must say that I was skinnier when I first met him( size M-L, now I am XL). We haven’t seen each other since February. And now I discover that he follows accounts that he shouldn’t. And he refuses to tell me if he talks to another girls. And says that if he does talk with others it’s only my fault because I didn’t tell him to see each other. I forgot to mention that we started dating in 2020, so 4 years of relationship. Should I break up with him or try to repair our relationship. Is it my fault?
TL;DR – my boyfriend M/29 made some nasty comments behind my back about my weight and gaslights me F/29 into thinking that it was my fault that everything happened. Should I break up with him or try to repair our relationship. Whose fault is it?