never used condoms during sex

hi, my boyfriend (21m) and i (19f) have not been using a condom since 2023 when we first had sex. there has been a few pregnancy scares whereby my period is later than expected. is there a chance that one of us is infertile? because we always go in raw and do the pullout game 😭 also condoms makes me feel really bad and dries me out for some reason… which is the main reason we don’t use it