A recent example.
here's a post with me talking about it, and seemingly coming to the conclusion of why. But the problem hasn't been fixed.
I should mention I'm autistic, I genuinely have no aggressive or hostile intent in pretty much any of these posts. (Aside from that edit in the recent one but it was in response to hostility)
I'm open to the idea that this is my fault and something about the way I speak tends to be read as aggressive, but I sincerely don't get why.