Im a (36m) that battles overthinking everyday. Especially when it comes to women. I want so bad to find someone. Before I even approach someone I overthink ( am I going to look like a creep? Get rejected? Be laughed at? If she actually acknowledges me, will hanging out be weird? Will a date go horribly wrong? If we proceed even further, will I be good enough? Can I sexually please her? If not would she cheat? This and that. I HATE that I go thought all that before I can even just say “hey”
It’s been 9 years for me since Iv been with someone, since Iv had sex. Since Iv even had a date. Has anyone gone through this and gotten over it?