**TL;DR;** :My boyfriend and I dated for 3 years. He proposed to me few months ago. We were planning to get married next year. Today, we talked randomly and he told his religion catholic doesn't allow any contraception after marriage.So no condom, just pull out and have sex during my safe period. I told him that's not fair because I am a woman that needs to suffer from consequences of giving birth, carrying the baby and potentially raising the babies alone if the guy left.
I don't want to take contraception pills neither.
He said he can get vasectomy if we have enough children , maybe 2.
What should I do? I love him but I feel like there is conflicts with our core values