I've [28F] been seeing this guy [31M] for almost 2 months now. I like him, we make each other laugh, everything is pleasant. We're both the sweetest person each other has ever dated which is crazy.
Every time we see each other we just can't stop making out and fucking. It's like we black out and lose time. Last night and into this morning we fucked 6 times and that's just business as usual with us. We both agree it's kind of scary and dangerous. We've already taken a little step back because I've caused him to fall behind on work a bit. We're both full adults acting like teenagers making out for literal hours.
I am worried this relationship is too based on sex. Has anyone ever had a partner like this where things morphed into a serious relationship? How do you get things done and be productive in life when you're fucking all the time? It's also hard to get to know someone when the mouth is occupied 90% of the time.
And we're not being careful. We were/are using condoms but we've fully devolved from teasing and grinding on one another to just fucking raw as "foreplay" before he gets a condom. Just out here potentially ruining each others' lives. For fun. Because it just feels too good. I mean at least he's not blowing loads inside me? But he is putting his dick inside me after very recently cumming into condoms. At least he is a major stoner so his sperm quality is probably pretty poor. My lone consolation.
I have never experienced anything like this before. I've had plenty of great sex with partners I've had high sexual chemistry with but this is something beyond. I just don't get tired of it.