So, I have one friend , who was in a toxic relationship and some toxic friendships for about 1.5 years, and now it has all ended, she has been affected mentally and is going through a very bad phase (can't trust anyone anymore, I am cause for all problems for everyone, etc).
I want to help her recover from this, but I have no clue what to do. Our colleges are in different cities so I can meet max once a month, I do not have a sense of humour to make her laugh, I am a very boring person as per general perceptions, and both of us don't like texting much.
The one good thing is that we have a very open relation, we are open and straightforward with each other and do not hesitate to tell anything to the other person, even if its an uncomfortable problem….idk if this helps or not, but telling just in case.
Now, I want to do something for her, she is the only friend I have till now and the only person to be by my side when everyone calls me a crazy, boring boy. I really really want to do something make her happy again somehow, but I don't know what should I do…..please guys, help me.
If you want more details, you can dm me, as I am not comfortable sharing everything here.
Please, any advice is appreciated.
Edit — Just to clarify, I dont have feelings for her, and dont want to have her as mine….she's my only friend and I just want to help her out of her bad phase