i am in a 4 month long distance relationship with a guy i met almost 3 years back on bumble. i am slowly realising that the things that he actually liked are now suddenly an issue for him in my personality. i am not myself in this relationship, i don’t want to upset him. i need some reassurance which he thinks is solely because i’m insecure. he think i’m too sensitive to take jokes and am always very serious and uptight. he finds me boring because of how i like to spend my days. i am unable to walk away because even though i might not be fully satisfied, i do love him very much. other than these issues, he treats me well and is caring.
is it a good idea for me to let the resentment build from all that i am holding inside and then leave since it’ll be easier for me? i am not asking for an ideal or a moral scenario but the one where i have a justified reason to get over the dumper’s guilt.