Hot-take, but I've noticed whenever I meet a lesser attractive person usually their insecurities, or lack of touching grass, or lack of dating experience usually makes them so much more difficult
Versus an attractive person, while some may have an ego, high standards, or highly sought after by more than one suitor, it requires equal amount of effort or less because of their confidence.
Do other people find this a common theme? Why is it when you give an unattractive girl a chance (ugly in terms of physical appearance or actual attitude) It's usually way worse than the effort needed for an attractive person.