Me and this girl I met off an app have been talking for 2 months. We text everyday and call every other day. I’ve been on 4 dates with her and the level of physical intimacy increases every date e.g hugging, cuddling, holding hands/skinship. She dropped me off at my place and I told her I really wanted to kiss her. She politely said not now and I respected her answer.
My confidence is ruined since I was always unsure whether or not she was physically into me/attracted or not hence why I had to ask for the kiss even when the timing was abit off and now I have my answer. How should I even proceed from here? I really am into her but I don’t want to invest anymore emotionally especially if she’s not physically attracted to me what’s the point.
To add more context : I’m abit well off and the dates we go on is me trying to show her my lifestyle. I’m beginning to think she might be taking advantage of this but I am in denial since she’s doing well for herself and cause she’s extremely hot. We also had the exclusive talk and both agreed to it.
Edit : She just posted a bathroom selfie of the restaurant we were just at for our latest date. (I don’t know what to make of this but my gut feeling says it’s pretty disrespectful)