When i give my girl head or play with her she orgasms. What i mean by that is that when she finishes her whole body is twitching and her clit gets sensitive to where if i touch it she flinches. Similar to when a girl keeps sucking after you finish.
So to me in my head she orgasmed. But she says while she did finish it’s not a real finish because she didn’t s q u i r t. She says a real orgasm is when she squirts and is able to cum over and over again.
I’ve only been able to make her s q u i r t once during penetration when we were both drunk. So does that mean everytime i play with her or give her head she doesn’t really finish?