I would tell them all the time about how i was being treated and just generally how unhappy this person made me. Eventually it got to a point where they all would drop subtle hints about me needing to leave. Never to over the top- but you could tell they started to see it.
I noticed it was bad when she would do actions and they would ask me about it without me even bringing it up. That’s when it hit me. If all my loved ones, and everyone around me can see it including me, why am i running and putting it off?
20/20 is always hindsight and 90% of the time people look back on EVERYBODY telling them they should’ve left earlier but never did. So this time i did it.
I finally listened for once and yesterday when we talked and ended it all she told me she’s been checked out for months. She told me that i was a great man, a great boyfriend, and that our problems were fixable but she “wasn’t willing to fix them with me”.