I’m 44 and want to improve my social skills, have a bit more charisma and draw people to me more just to meet more people.
I’ve read that just being almost a bit flirty with everyone you meet can work and that charismatic people like Bill Clinton could make everyone feel like they were the centre of the universe or even make women feel he was in love with them.
Now that’s a bit extreme but a bit if that might be nice 😀
Is it OK to do this? I did try this in the past with women I worked with I’m a straight female and these women were also straight but I did sort of flirt with them a bit and they seemed to love it one of them even used to day she wished I was a guy so we could date!
It’s a bit tougher to do it with guys because I’m there is the possibility I could be actually coming on to them and it’s complicated as at my age a lot of guys are married and I don’t want to be predatory.
But how do I use subtle flirtatiousness with both sees to improve my charisma without being too much or looking like I’m on the prowl?