I am never approached by boys, when I try to have eye contact (which happens once in a 3 month :D) I mainly get rejection. The problem is in my body language
I often get comments from my family about my walking, sitting( big gap between legs), talking, I mainly wear baggy clothes, I think all these things give off masculine energy, but when I try to like focus on those stuff I handle it good. I really want to change it, I like some of the characteristics from movie actresses which I want to copy and make it regular, any ideas to help myself
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Idk I have the same problem 🤷♀️ I just accept it
> when I try to have eye contact (which happens once in a 3 month :D) I mainly get rejection.
what? lol. how can eye contact be rejected exactly? you looked at someone and they didn’t immediately approach you, talk to you and proposition to go on a date / have sex right there in public?
just kidding, but really, what does that mean? if you aren’t even saying “hi” then you cannot be rejected.
>I think all these things give off masculine energy
isn’t it way to early to start speculating about why you have a problem, when you aren’t sure yet that you have a problem? you may be wasting your energy and effort to fix something that isn’t even a problem, not to mention your happiness about worrying about it!
Try working on one or these things a week. For example week 1 go shopping for clothes that aren’t baggy and start wearing them. Week 2 start sitting with less gap between your legs.