My (F28) fiancé (M29) have been together for a decade and are getting married at the end of the year. He’s a really wonderful person 99% of the time, he takes care of me and is thoughtful and kind. However, I’ve been battling long covid for 4 years and it recently got really bad. I haven’t slept very well for the last few nights. Tonight, he got completely fed up, shouted at me for not doing anything about it (don’t know what more I can do, doctors can’t even help me), and just left the room to go watch Netflix.
When I’m very sick, he does take care of me but then he lashes out or just gets mad at me and leaves the room. When he’s sick, I really try to look after him and I never tell him that it’s his fault. I don’t know what’s going on. What should I do/tell him?