I (25f) have been dating my (28m) boyfriend for a year now. In the beginning, we would do foreplay, but now, he would just grab my boobs for 30 secs and proceeds to penetrate me. (Note, that I love making out and foreplay in general)
It has become problematic, because recently I feel stabbing pains when he’s thrusting in me.
I told him multiple times that we need to spend more time on foreplay, and he does acknowledge it. He says that he’ll do better. But every time we fuck, it’s the same thing all over again.
We don’t make out, he doesn’t make an effort to turn me on, and I just don’t enjoy sex as I used to before.
I feel frustrated because I want to enjoy sex with him and yet he doesn’t listen to me.
How can I communicate this to him in a way that he doesn’t take it personally? How can I motivate him to listen, so we can both enjoy sex?
TL;DR
I love my boyfriend but I don’t enjoy sex anymore to the extent that having sex with him physically hurts. I told him numerous times, but it’s like we’re in a constant cycle. How do I make him step up his game so we can both enjoy sex?