disclaimer : everything i say is recent i have (unfortunately) no memory of how i used to be but i know i changed immensely (!!!!!!!!)
i find myself having nothing to talk about with my friends or limited to the couple of things we have in common which doesn’t make the conversation last too long
i know i can just talk about what i enjoy and do but i think i can come through as boring (21F btw) or arrogant i find myself having better conversations with older people or similar minded people (as in mentality, interests or/and a similar way of life and curiosity)
and the reason i say arrogant is not because of the way i talk or present myself i get so shy from compliments or praise but from what i observed it’s usually because i actually do what is good and healthy for me and rarely participate in the mischievous ways of others around me
idk how this will come through since i have the full context of my life but i just want advice on how to figure out if i’m the problem (and why?) or i just haven’t found like minded people (and everyone is crazy!)