Hi! I am 28F and my STBEx is 31M and were together for 8 years and married for 4.
Background: I had not seen him more than 2 days a week for the past 8 months due to his school and work (he was staying elsewhere). When we did see each other he was too tired or too uninterested to really do things in our relationship.
We recently decided to get separated (3 weeks). There was no cheating, or abuse, but he just did not want to be in this relationship anymore. I was pro working on it and going to therapy. (Spoiler: he was not) It was an incredibly amicable separation because I do not want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me.
We have not started the official divorce process, but will be soon.
I recently jumped back onto dating apps and have someone that wants to take me on a morning date tomorrow. I am so unsure if this is “too soon”. Please send any advice!