I have been seeing this guy for over a month now. I (27 F) just need to understand why he (24 M) keeps criticizing my looks (my belly, my weight (i am in normal bmi range, just not skinny), my skin issues, my forehead) but is still keen to meeting me and spending time with me? I brought it up multiple times and he keeps saying he wants me to do better bc I have potential, aka work out and improve my skin via better diet. Whenever I tell him to date a woman that fits his standards or that he seems to be desperate if he is willing to date someone he finds unattractive, he is offended.
Why do some men do this? Is he desperate for sex? He is attractive but that‘s subjective I guess. He just doesn‘t strike me as the guy who would be desperate.