I think this is largely crossover of insta lifestyle displayed on dating apps, and a question of confidence, but as man in his 30’s, I sometimes look at profiles of women, where I think I probably couldn’t ’match her energy’. Gladly, many women are doing very well for themselves. Good career, loads of travel, ski pics, own their own shit. All of that on top of being tall and beautiful, it’s like scrolling through a race of super women sometimes.
Of course, there’s more going on in her life on a deeper level, but I would worry I couldn’t match her current lifestyle and demands of what she wants in a man. So..
So does anyone ever swipe No on a profile because you find him/her intimidating in some way? Or you think I wouldn’t be able to match ‘their energy’?