Hey everyone,
I (20m) recently broke up with my ex (20f) over a recurring argument we’re having. We’re together for 6 months, and I caught her texting “boy(s)”. I have no problem of her texting her friends and I told her that multiple and time, but then the thing is that she almost exclusively only text with boys who told have a crush on her and told her that and she”reject them”. She always complains about that and always tell me she really want peace and uncomfortable with them, while still accepting call and hanging out with them. All of this is while we’re together. The peak is when I come over to her place and on the sofa, when one of those “friends” call her, having one of those awkward “wyd” conversation and then he kept on saying things like he loves her and he wants to be her bf and shit. While I’m in the room. I felt genuinely betrayed, I confronted her for the “nth” time again about it and this time she still say things like “oh I don’t have any intention or anything” and that she uncomfortable with them; the same answer as any other time i ask her about it. I told her to have fun with her boyfriend and storm out of her house. She call me when I’m back to my place. Saying things like i’m insane, I’m overreacting, I’m crazy, etc.. We broke up the next day.
I really need some assurance; Am I the crazy one here? Am I overreacting? Does texting multiple people who clearly showing love interest to you while in a relationship is normal and nothing to be worried about? I really want to trust her but this things occurred way too frequent and I’m just genuinely confused and mad about it… what am i supposed to do about it?