man said he wanted to f*** within the first 20 minutes of first date

how are people meeting men who actually want to date. i went on a hinge date last night in NYC and the guy straight up just said he wanted to f me within 20 minutes of the first date. needless to say, date didn't last much longer after that but i was honestly shocked in the moment and pretty uncomfortable. i don't really know where to look or what to use to meet men but feeling a bit defeated after last night. any recs?