As a boring introvert who needs lots of time to himself, where do I meet the boring shy introverted women?

Most women I’ve met have been too socially draining for me. I want a deep romantic connection, but I don’t want to be around you everyday. I just can’t manage that when I work as much as I do. I need some weekends by myself. I find it’s so hard to meet a woman who won’t get either bored or insecure with this arrangement. So I realize I need another woman who feels the same. But the sad part is they are all probably hiding at home listening to their records with their cat and I’ll never meet them 🙁