Tl; Dr : met a man on a vacation but he's 40 and i think i like him. Told him its not working, but not sure if its because I'm aware of my sisters hate towards the idea or my gut feeling.
In the beginning of june, I had a vacation of my life and I met somebody. He's a friend of my sister (32) and her boyfriend (36).
We clicked a lot and seemed to get along just well, hung out, went on motorcycle rides ( almost missed my flight back home because of that) and everything else. We then continued texting, calling, video calling and it went on and on and on..on a daily basis.
We recently planned a 20 day trip through Europe, and that bugged me because I said I can take 7 days off of work, but tried to ignore it.
The issue started when we talked about getting me a plane ticket, and my stomach just became full of knots.
Suddenly, I didn't wanna do it anymore. At all.
I knew my sister was against us seeing each other, but I don't know if it's that, or just my gut feeling. I do understand why she was against it ( he's a man who's constantly shifting thru relationships and women, and nobody's good enough for him) but still ….it left me wondering…
I texted him that this isn't going to work out for me, but in reality, I really do like him. I am, indeed wondering…if there's anything I should with someone who's 40 and you know, am I going completely insane here?
Sometimes I feel like somethings wrong with me.
Sometimes I feel like somethings wrong with
Do i stay with him and keep building this?
Do i leave due to age difference? And all of those questions….