My boyfriend M28 and I F29 are 4 months together. We klicked right from the beginning and the emotions are growing more everyday on both sides i would say.
He spends the nights at my place 1-2 times a week and he got really comfortable at my place. I still didnt met his friends, neither he met mine. We are different culture, religion and nationalities and we discussed and agreed both we wait with this for a while. Thats fine for me. But everytime when I ask him to see his place he tells me hes few friends and family have access to his flat and they visit sometimes spontaniousley and he doesnt want that they visit while im there. He asked me to wait a lill till i meet his friends.
I dont think thats a good reason to not see his flat. I dont need to spend the night, a coffee for an hour is just enough for me.
I share my body, emotions and my place and food with him and he just cant arrange that i see his flat for an hour.
Im sure hes not married neither he lives with someone. He works next to my flat till 7 pm, i see him work every day. At 10 pm he calls me and we talk till 3 am. He cant have a wife or roommate.
If he is messy he just has so much time to clean.
So what reason could it actually be?