Ok so I have a partner I have been with for 5 years, but due to my own trauma and other issues I find I don’t like sex as much as I use to. I enjoy the act of sex but I find I like having control over my own feeling and that makes it so I can’t cum with my partner.
I think one issue I have is that I have one specific way of masturbating always and I don’t usually deviate from it, I can only cum a certain way when I control it. How do I get over this? Do I just have to experiment with different ways of masturbating in order for my body to get use to it?