This is two fold – friends and professional.
When it comes to friends, I'll meet people (school, meet-ups that I go to, ect.) and get to know them. I'll make sure to focus on them, and not talk about myself too much – and usually we'll hit it off because I get along with most people. If I feel like we get along enough, I'll ask for their number and we'll talk from there. We might talk for a few days or weeks, but then I'll text them one day and they won't respond – forever. I can name 10 people this has happened to me with in the past 4 months.
People seem to enjoy my personality and like me.
In business, I would network with people online and they wouldn't want to talk. I thought I didn't come across as relevant enough, so I worked on my acalades. Things have improved, but not by much.
Business networking is a little better in real life, but not by much. I can go into a mixer and command a room in 30 minutes, but few will actually want to talk to me after.
How do I improve my communication? Some people who know me in real life say I communicate well and come off as well put together. Im very lonely because of this and have no friends or business connections because no one wants to talk to me.
Advice?