Whats up hope everyone is doing well. Pretty much I met this woman on hinge who also happened to go to my college. We hit it off in the beginning. Eventually, we went on a date around 3 to 4 ish weeks ago. It went good and we had talked with one another and played PS5.
However throughout these bursts of talking, she would go ghost and return. Of course I had seen this as a sign to let it go and cut my losses. However, the most recent time she did that, she apologized and came off strong again and started flirting. I took the opportunity and asked her for a second date. It was a good set up as she had asked me when I was returning to dorms early as I applied to he a housing assistant. She said yeah to the proposal and we agreed on going to get a bite and hanging out. For context and pretense to my question/dilemna, this was about a week ago.
Since it had pretty much been a week we talked and since the date is coming up on August 5th, I sent her a post on insta regarding an inside joke we had. She hasnt responded to it in about the past day and a half. I also have no clue if she even opened it as I deleted the insta chat as I kinda wanted to put it out of sight. For added context this has no affect on what she sees in the chat as It only deletes it on my end. Im not sure if I should text her on messages but then again im sure she saw it or has been active on insta.
Considering she hasnt responded and likely won't, should I avoid following up specifically on the date? Overall this could be seen as an overreaction but she had lagged a bit before just to return and act strongly for a bit. What should I do?