I‘m (25) in a relationship with my bf (27) for 5 years now. We usually have a good and open communication. The sex is good as we also dont see each other so much but things become more and more a standard procedure. I also expresses my fantasies with him. things that turn me on. Even if thex were a bit embarassing. When i ask him about his, he says he doesnt really have any or says regular things like sex in the kitchen.
I would love to get to know my bf fantasies and kinks but he doesnt seem to have any / or is afraid to talk about them.
-Do some people just not have any sexual fantasies kinks or desires?
Or how do you help your partner to open up with you?