I'm a 23 y/o woman and have never been able to orgasm either by myself or with a partner. I have tried both penetrative and oral sex and have also tried several different toys but have not had any luck. I'm not really sure what else to try at this point.
Sex is pretty painful for me. I can get wet but I'm not sure if it's a 'normal' amount. I can get to a stage where I feel an overwhelming feeling which makes me want to stop. It doesn't feel good though so I'm not sure if I'm on the right track. I have tried pushing through it but it just becomes more unpleasant and I have also tried backing off but then I can't get that feeling back again.
I did take sertraline for three years and stopped about 2 years ago. I was on the lowest dose though so I'm hoping it hasn't had a long term effect.
Please let me know if anyone has any advice. My last relationship ended because of this so I feel like it's becoming a bit of an issue for me.