so in my previous relationship i was accused of rape and shit and i’m not realizing it till this relationship but it’s scarred me because she wants me to leave hickeys and stuff and even though i know they don’t hurt i’m scared to do it because of my past relationship i’m afraid of something like it happening again anything that leaves a mark like a hickey or bite mark or anything like that i don’t want to do because of my ex and she understands but doesn’t she understands i don’t want to and respects it and asks politely and shit but but she doesn’t understand why i don’t want to any advice for this situation at all?