I am in a relationship with an amazing girl I've known for a while and can confidentiality say I wanna spend the rest of my life witht but there is one problem and that's intimacy. She has trauma from being SA as a child and has never had any kind of intimate relationship. We have kissed a few times but even that seems to be uncomfortable for her. The last thing I want is to ruin a good thing and cause her any kind of harm or pain. However I can't help but feel a little empty or alone at times in a relationship w her bc of this. We talked about it and I told her if we were dating intimacy is important and something I would want in our relationship and she agreed and said she would like to get there but doesn't know how. Long story short ik she won't initiate it and I feel like I would be in the wrong or ruin this for pushing to hard. How do we overcome this?
Also we are both 22 (also first time posting here sorry if tagged it wrong didn't know what category this would fall under but boundaries seemed fitting)